Art is almost always an expression of the self observing others in a way that resonates with our own self. Through this “art” we create something that is both cathartic for our “self” and inspired by others. This is a pure example of how interconnected we all really are. My happiness is as important to me as another being’s happiness is to them. Right there we can find a huge and limitless compassion for others! As soon as we realize that we are all seeking the same peace and happiness, we can see that we are all fighting the same hard battle. We see how our needs are all the same and then I think we find a deeper capacity for love and forgiveness.

Whether it’s “happy” or “dark” art, when another being resonates with it, they feel less isolated. Some of the saddest, darkest songs ever written are the ones that give me the most hope. It’s always comforting to know you’re not alone. If it’s a bright happy song it can cheer you up, but if it’s a sad song about the human condition, then you can feel less alone. I think all art can do this, not just music. Great films, paintings, poetry, novels, or dance. We just need to feel connected to something and art does that. For me, music especially does it. After all, it is the universal language.

After a while, you have to dig deeper as a songwriter and performer if you’re going to be able to stomach yourself every day and sleep at night. You have to move beyond your own feelings and tap into those feelings of others. Not only is this the truest way to get fresh material for the listener, for me it is the only way to have the passion to perform night after night after night. No matter if I am sick, tired, sad, lonely, discouraged, or self-conscious; it forces me to transform all of those demons into something that can be shared with my audience. In turn, they may transform some of their own demons and this is something we can all experience together as we travel through the hard and beautiful life together.